Seems like you have

Questions…

“What should I wear?”

Good Question. Please wear formal attire.

Here are some “dos” and “donts” to give you clarity:

DO:

  • A suit with a tie (a vest is cool too)

  • An evening dress

  • A cocktail dress

  • A pantsuit (matching set)

  • A jumpsuit (fancy)

DONT:

  • A white dress (duhh)

  • A Tuxedo (just for the groom)

  • A sun dress

  • A club dress

  • Khakis

  • Sneakers

  • Overalls

  • Any kind of hat

  • A sword around your waist

  • A clown costume

  • Apple Vision Pro

  • Jorts

We realize wearing “formal attire” isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. We want you to feel good about, and respected in, what you are wearing. We encourage you to express yourself within our guidelines, and find a formal that feels like you.

“Where should I stay?”

We have a block of rooms reserved at the Harrisburg Hilton. Please visit our Travel + Stay page for more info.

Of course, if that’s not your speed, you can stay wherever you’re comfortable.

“Is there parking at the venue?”

Yes! There will be parking for guests at the venue. We will also have a trolley that will bring people to and from The Hilton.

“Will there be an open bar?”

Obvi.

“Is your wedding going to be inside or outside?”

Well, both. Our ceremony will be on the front lawn. Cocktail hour will be indoor/outdoor. Dinner and dancing will be inside, but you’re welcome to get some fresh air if you want to.

It’s not going to rain. But if it does, just shut up about it, we have a lovely plan B.

“Can I take pictures during your ceremony with my phone or personal camera?”

No. Please don’t. That’s why we have photographers.

Please stay present with us as we make our vows.

“Can I bring my kid(s)?”

We love all your children, but we prefer to keep our wedding a kid-free zone (with the exception of children of close family members).

Consider it a date night. You’re welcome.

“When is the RSVP deadline?”

Please RSVP by April 10th, 2025.

Please don’t make us hunt you down.

“Do you have a registry?”

We do. Visit our Registry page.

Please do not feel pressure to get us a gift. We just want you to come celebrate with us.

“Can I bring a gift to the wedding?”

Please just bring your wonderful selves to our wedding. We just won’t have anywhere to put gifts that day.

If you wanna bring a card to the wedding, that would just be lovely.

If you really want to get us something from our registry, please send it to our home or give it to us on a different occasion.

“How will I know if there are any updates before the wedding?”

When you RSVP to our wedding you give us an email to contact you with. We will send updates to that email address if and when we need to.

It’s also likely that for most of you, one of our moms will just tell ya what’s goin on, whether you ask or not.

“How do I get in touch with you guys if I still have questions?”

So we don’t get really confused or overwhelmed, please just email us if you have wedding related questions.